Comments on: No. 10 – Janet Comes Out | Missing Piece Podcast

By: Collette

Collette — Sun, 28 Apr 2013 22:02:14 +0000

You are so special Janet. You have ability to make to make others think and question their opinions and convictions. I love love love your hair, honey! Have you ever used a relaxer and if so, what have your experiences been? Thank you for your story.

By: La Diosa K

La Diosa K — Tue, 07 Aug 2012 14:26:32 +0000

Thank you, thank you, thank you for being you! Keep up the good work! Your saving lives!

By: BE_U_TIFUL BY b

BE_U_TIFUL BY b — Wed, 13 Jun 2012 03:20:03 +0000

i was doing research to help a family member adjust to life as a transgender female. Janet Mock really helped her to feel more comfortable in her own skin. with so much happening to transgender woman of color she feared for her life. public outings as herself did not occur. #girlslikeus really gave her insight that she has the right to live and be happy the way she is just like everyone else. Thank you so much Janet. She gets better and more comfortable every day. She even allowed me to post a pic of her on my twitter. I am very proud of my family member and will support her completely.

By: Maria j

Maria j — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 18:12:44 +0000

im proud of Janet..I’m from Singapore I went for my surgery when I was 21 there a story about my life.. Now I’m 45 I never regret what I’m now..I’m always tell myself I BORN TO BE FAMOUS IN MY WAY.. I’m act in the movie, I’m tv host, I’m professional make up artist, I’m business women with my own wedding boutique but the sad thing I’m always failed in love..I never trust men coz they always ditch me and say how pretty i am I can’t give them a baby..I almost get married last year but we break 2 weeks before our big day..is this karma or people like never deserve to get married..I always stay strong but how long can it last.. But Janet mock u always my idol I hope my dream can meetu personally..love and always pray for ur happiness

By: john riingen

john riingen — Wed, 14 Dec 2011 01:54:16 +0000

Hi,
I accidentally found your podcast today, and I’d like to let you know I celebrate your coming out. I belong to a church that doesnt accept people who belong to what we call “third sex,” but I firmly believe that God loves us all no matter what our sexual orientation is. Keep up the good work.

John R.

By: adrianna king

adrianna king — Sat, 23 Jul 2011 04:34:43 +0000

Hi janet my name is adrianna king and i am also a women from transexual experiance. i have read ur stories about ur experiance growing up and i would like to say u are strong women and a romodel for a lot of people out their who is going threw the same thing and not for the lgbt community but for every body who challenges and faces the challenges of social norm (whatever that is) i live on the northside with my boyfriend of three years in chicago. growing up was not easy for me in highschool i felt all alone i staretaking hormones at 17 and was astonished at how my body changed i was starting to feel at ease with whom i was. but then at the age of 21 i became homeless for six months. moving up north and trying to live my life as the women i was born i finnaly got my brake by working hard and participating at the center on halsted a large lgbtq community i started working moved in my own apartment and i was also featured in the red eye and chicag tribune. i would like to say thank u For your story xx

By: A. Dionne Stallworth

A. Dionne Stallworth — Sun, 03 Jul 2011 17:11:26 +0000

It took me a while to get back here, but I made it. Thank you for your kind words, Janet. I have such a sense of pride knowing there are a few young people who are stepping up and leading like you. I have a hope that I didn’t before – that maybe the things I did in my life mattered and I made a difference after all. Thanks for that continue on. Praises to THE ONE!

By: Ebby

Ebby — Sun, 12 Jun 2011 03:59:22 +0000

Janet you are so beautiful I read somewhere that you said that one of your beauty icons were Halle Berry,Well I would like you to know you are one of my beauty icon :) I love everything about you! Your strength and courage! I also absolutely adore your hair I would like to know what colors is it?

By: Stefanie

Stefanie — Wed, 08 Jun 2011 02:38:20 +0000

For my future friends and children I thank you because your story is more than words. You and your man have given me new hope in our human race. I am just a plain jane heterosexual gal, but I have seen the type of cruelty you must have experienced and may even still. I worry about bringing any child into this world and your story and the kind comments regarding it made me cry with joy and hope. Thank you again for being brave and lovely.

By: Katrina Langford

Katrina Langford — Mon, 06 Jun 2011 15:51:39 +0000

I hope Hollywood has contacted you to work on a TV movie or feature. If they haven’t, I would like to discuss the possibility of writing something with you. My cousin is a transgender whose parents weren’t supportive and your stories need to be told to reach more people. I can’t tell you how it has pained me to get the public’s reaction to someone I love so deeply simply because there isn’t enough understanding. You can email me for contact info and my credentials. Thank you and and your husband for being so brave.

Sincerely,

Katrina Langford

By: vonnie

vonnie — Fri, 03 Jun 2011 02:48:13 +0000

so happy that I found your blog, what an incredible story. you are truly gorgeous, I wish that I had a head of hair like yours…wowser ;) Stay beautiful and good luck to you and Aaron because you both are pretty darn awesome. I’d have drinks with you guys for sure lol

By: Vainsmith

Vainsmith — Fri, 27 May 2011 08:51:58 +0000

I must say that I am happy to have come across your story as there are not many LGBT people that I come across that I am truly intrigued by on a regular basis. I love my people because they are me, as you are. I hope that you & Aaron continue with these podcast because they are amazing! I may not have been on this journey from the beginning but its a journey I want to watch blossom. The chemistry between you two makes me want to find love in my love :) but thats neither here nor there. You, Janet are a beautiful human being with so much to offer. I know the negative energy from the naysayers will be in the air but the positive energy trumps them any day. I am someone who plans on showing support & to spread love. Thank you for simply being you!

By: Lisa

Lisa — Wed, 25 May 2011 19:06:19 +0000

Hello.

I just read your story and I had to write.

I just wanted to say that you are a beautiful and brave woman and God bless that you’ve seemed to have found a partner to match you in those traits.

Best of luck and happiness to you both.

By: Kelly KELL

Kelly KELL — Tue, 24 May 2011 19:52:24 +0000

Janet I am so happy for you and encouraged by your story. I am 34 years old and still saving for my srs. I feel like my goal is so far away and at times I get discouraged. After reading your article I had an awakening and a renewed sense that no matter how far the goal is life is still a gift. I actually am living stealth and I think that maybe living open may be better and more healthy for those in our society that view us as clowns or freaks. You are classy and woman like you will allow our society to view us as productive citizens and also see us as a standard of beuty. You are and inspiration to all woman!!!!!!

By: laura

laura — Tue, 24 May 2011 12:43:23 +0000

Janet,
I loved your article. My own transition was years ago and my life has moved on quite like yours. But reading about your struggle reminded me so much of my own journey, my childhood, my pain, and the enormous happiness I now have. Your article articulated what we deal with and feel so much better than I ever could. Thank you!!

By: Soulthoughtful

Soulthoughtful — Tue, 24 May 2011 04:45:11 +0000

Janet. You are a beautiful spirit-being. I can see clearly the spirit of you and your story made me see something that I never thought about before. We are all spiritual beings who came into a body, and once you can understand that, it becomes easier to understand the plight that folks like you face when you find yourself/soul/spirit in the ‘other’ gender- being. I wish you the love and joy in your life. What a blessing to find the strength you have found. Thank you for sharing your story….

By: Janet

Janet — Tue, 24 May 2011 02:52:07 +0000

Thank you so much for sharing that link with me. I had heard whispers of this before, and I’ve heard other trans people say there brains were female, but their bodies were male. It’s just a reconciling of both. Though I’m happy researchers and scientists are delving deeper into our evolution, as you’ve so eloquently said, I’ve always felt it was a fight between the body (our physical world) and the soul (the world that is unseen, beyond the grasp of our five senses). Thank you again for this!

By: Janet

Janet — Tue, 24 May 2011 02:48:59 +0000

Antonio – I’m so happy that you found me, even if it was through Necole Bitchie’s very scary comments section. ha! I’m so happy that my stories have touched you, and I look forward to staying connected with you via my stories.

By: NikNak

NikNak — Mon, 23 May 2011 14:57:49 +0000

I don't know if you care about this, but my friend and I were talking about your story (plus how beautiful you are, haha) and he mentioned evidence that suggest there was good reason you were feeling trapped as a girl in a boy's body. Scans show difference in transgender brains Interesting. Nature and evolution are so tricky. I'm glad though that you are happy and that we as humans have come far enough through innovation that we can help people who have so many different kinds of issues. And you are a shining example of how great it turned out.

By: Janet

Janet — Mon, 23 May 2011 12:47:36 +0000

Eve – thank you for spreading your love and light here and on my facebook page. I feel so honored and humbled and privileged to have touched you and to represent you and all of us. I am one person and I feel blessed to bring light to our collective story as a community of women and men who may not be understood. And I’m so glad that I’ll be getting your pretty behind in a store for my book. xx

By: Janet

Janet — Mon, 23 May 2011 12:43:52 +0000

Thank you so much!

By: [flahy][blak][chik]

[flahy][blak][chik] — Mon, 23 May 2011 00:20:24 +0000

you are beautifully amazing!

By: Eve Harlowe

Eve Harlowe — Sun, 22 May 2011 23:40:32 +0000

You already know that I think you incredible! I’m so happy that your story is being received so well , by the general public . It’s an unfortunate truth that many folks will be unkind .But from what I see so many folks, many of whom are not Trans are being very open to your story , and you . That is a credit to you and your particular light. The fact that you’ve chosen to share is sooooooo incredibly helpful to sooooooo many young people who are dealing with this and feel lost ,and or that they can’t have a wonderful future. You’ve broken that broken that into a million pieces ….So bravo!!! I’m not an avid reader….I will be buying your book sist’a!

By: Janet

Janet — Sun, 22 May 2011 14:48:48 +0000

Thanks MeekaB – Little Charles, it’s like that’s another person but everyone sees so much of me in that kid. I think what we’re all reacting to is the energy, as Aaron said. Thank you for the kind words. As for my family, they’ve always been supportive of me and couldn’t be prouder of me. Like any family, we all have our issues, but overall we accept all of our differences with love. Thanks for writing to me!

By: Janet

Janet — Sun, 22 May 2011 14:38:10 +0000

Thanks for your questions – now let’s answer them:

1. I get my hair colored and highlighted at the Little Hair Shoppe in the East Village. My stylist’s name is Chris.
2. I play volleyball about twice a week. You just have to do things you love. But with the summer season being a little more spotty, I’m signing up for a gym membership and hope to get in some yoga, weight training, lots of jump-roping and a wee bit of cardio.
3. I really believe in filling your plate with healthy greens and a bit of lean protein (salmon, chicken). I eat berry smoothies for breakfast; almonds/raisins as snacks; big delicious leafy salads and protein for lunch; and a nice dinner with grilled or sauteed veggies and more protein. I treat myself on the weekends with burgers and bbq and nice desserts. Moderation is key!
4. I actually use Makeup Forever’s dual mat compact on a daily basis. If I need more coverage for a night out, I’ll use Chanel’s liquid foundation.

I’m so glad I’ve inspired you to get healthier. Your body is your vessel and you’ve only got we. I can’t wait to hear about your progress. xx

By: Janet

Janet — Sun, 22 May 2011 14:27:46 +0000

Thanks Fendie. I truly believe in the power of storytelling and all I want is to tell my story with the intent of letting kids and anyone really know that they can have the life of their dreams if they just believe and seek help. Where in Asia are you? I still want to go back to Bangkok and actually experience the place outside of a surgeon’s clinic. Thanks for writing to me!

By: Janet

Janet — Sun, 22 May 2011 14:25:51 +0000

Thanks Eden. We make a pretty good match, it’s been that way since the first night we met and he took my drunk butt to a local coffee shop to sober me up. We’ve been gabbing ever since. Thank you for writing to me!

By: Janet

Janet — Sun, 22 May 2011 14:24:44 +0000

Chanel – you are so so sweet. Your words really touched me. I am on the verge of tears. Thank you for spreading love and light onto my site. I love that my story, despite you having not traveled on the same road, found the human thread within it that makes us all tick. Thank you for writing to me. xx

By: Janet

Janet — Sun, 22 May 2011 14:23:08 +0000

Hi McKenzie. I’m so happy my story touched you and am honored that you’ll be passing it on to your coworker. Thanks for writing to me!

By: Janet

Janet — Sun, 22 May 2011 14:05:34 +0000

“I’m a mother of three children and I’ll always support them no matter what.” Your children are so so lucky to have you as their mother. All we need, child or adult, is love and support from those closest to us. That love allows us to blossom in ways we never thought possible. Thank you so much for your kind words, and I aim to continue to provide inspiration for anyone with a dream!

By: Janet

Janet — Sun, 22 May 2011 14:03:58 +0000

I’m so so sorry Erica. I think high school is just a forced environment where we have no choice who is around us. But afterward we say it gets better because you can choose whom you spend your time with. I’m sorry that you’re dealing with obstacles and feel scared, tired and alone. I want you to know that despite being in Venezuela and I’m in New York, I am here for you. You are not alone. I may not be there in person, but I am thinking of you and sending you blessings of strength and endurance. You come from a TRIBE of trapped women and men who just want their bodies to represent them at their best. I genuinely HOPE that you’ll continue to reach out to me, even if it’s on email at contact@janetmock.com. Please tune into the light and hope because in my darkest hour it helped me pull myself out of despair.

By: Janet

Janet — Sun, 22 May 2011 14:00:06 +0000

Thanks so much. We both just try to be ourselves and hopefully awesome people, like you!, embrace us for just being. I feel so honored to have you tuned in. Thanks for writing to me!

By: Fendie

Fendie — Sun, 22 May 2011 10:29:36 +0000

I saw your It Gets Better video and I’m so happy you did it. And I’m so happy that in your life it really showed that it got better.

I’m listening to your podcast now and I’m so happy that you two found one another.

Love from Asia!
Fendie

By: MeekaB

MeekaB — Sun, 22 May 2011 05:41:37 +0000

Wow ur hella gorgeous!! Even as Charles ur beauty is like WHOA o_0 Im glad u no longer have that burden on ur chest, and i hope ur relationship w/ ur fam isnt strained either. Luv u sweetie -_- God Bless

By: Eden

Eden — Sun, 22 May 2011 05:30:36 +0000

Cute dynamic between the two of you. Thanks for sharing with the world.

By: NikNak

NikNak — Sun, 22 May 2011 04:44:14 +0000

I have a few questions.

1. Who does your hair?

2. What is your fitness routine?

3. What are your eating habits?

4. What brand of foundation do you use?

You are absolutely, fucking beautiful. I think we have the same texture of hair and complexion, but I won’t even pretend to that I am on your level. You have inspired me to head to the gym and get my frickin act together.

Oh yeah, congratulations on getting that tidbit of your gender history of your chest, ;-) Oh, and big ups to Aaron for supporting you.

By: Chanel

Chanel — Sun, 22 May 2011 00:16:04 +0000

Darling, you are immaculately gorgeous! Not because of your story but for the woman you are…Inside and Out! Your journey is foreign to me, but utterly inspiring. Your courage, your honesty, your humor, your humility and I probably can go on. Just from this small knowledge of your life I can feel your sincerity and integrity. There is no doubt why Aaron loves you. You are amazing. I look forward to wonderful things from you.

By: McKenzie Granger

McKenzie Granger — Sat, 21 May 2011 19:18:55 +0000

I heard about your story through another blog site.I have to say thank you for being you,their is someone i work with who is just like you and i feel honoured to have the knowledge to share with her your story… GOD BLESS YOU…

By: Ms.Wright

Ms.Wright — Sat, 21 May 2011 17:33:43 +0000

Wow, I would first like to say YOU”RE BEAUTIFUL! OMG your story is amazing and It takes real courage to come forward with your story. You really are truly beautiful. Who cares what everyone has to say. I can’t wait to read you book. Again your blessed in so many ways Janet and you’re a total inspiration. I’m a mother of three children and I’ll always support them no matter what. You’re so lucky to have had a supportive family and friends, a lot of people don’t have that and that’s why theirs so much suicide and violence in the world now………I wish you much more success….

By: Erica M

Erica M — Sat, 21 May 2011 16:36:48 +0000

Thank you so much for your bravery. Ironically I think it’s harder now that I’m no longer in high school -which I’m ashamed of… I was so scared of coming out in a heavily religious environment, which is not even as tought as my perceptions led me to believe-

Those of us who are black, trans and in a third world country (Venezuela, in my case) don’t feel we have much hope. At 19 I’ve been feeling I have less of a chance than when I was 14 or so, and the recent events in my life have don’t make it better.

I’m scared, tired and alone. I thank you for resonating with me.

By: ayankha

ayankha — Sat, 21 May 2011 09:31:46 +0000

Wow! I’m just tuning in and your story is sooo inspiring. Thank you for having the courage to tell your story and provide another example of living authentically and being successful in your own terms. I hardly ever listen to personal podcasts and found this one to be quite enjoyable -you and Aaron have awesome on-air chemistry (which I can tell is matched or hotter off air ;) ). I wish you and Aaron the best professionally and personally.

By: Antonio G

Antonio G — Sat, 21 May 2011 08:08:02 +0000

-Janet,
I found out about Janet Mock [dot] com via Necole Bitchie, who featured your story on her blog. I started by reading “Musings of Love,” and fell in love with your entries about love, heartache, life and Aaron. Thank you (and Aaron) for sharing your stories with the world.

By: Janet

Janet — Sat, 21 May 2011 05:56:19 +0000

Dionne – you are so so right. We all have our own paths with our own brand of twists and turns, but in the end we all hopefully are traveling on the road towards self-fulfillment. “but I am becoming my best every day” – YES you are. You and older women like you are also in my thoughts. I will be more mindful of that in my messaging. Thank you so so much for sharing your thoughts with me. I am deeply humbled.

By: Janet

Janet — Sat, 21 May 2011 05:51:05 +0000

Wow – I’m so happy that we touched you so much so that you commented. Please let us know if there’s anything you want to hear on the podcast, any questions or comments. We are a work in progress. Thank you for taking the time out to hear us rant!

By: Janet

Janet — Sat, 21 May 2011 05:49:26 +0000

Thanks Sheri!

By: A. Dionne Stallworth

A. Dionne Stallworth — Sat, 21 May 2011 05:00:27 +0000

Janet, people are still going through it at 52. You can see my real picture on my FB page, but I wanted to say that to you. I know I have not always been able to live in truth, and that caused me to fail may people who are important to me. I didn’t give up on me and “Rev. Oprah” spoke to me as you read her words. I am working on my life and I’m working toward my own complete transition and completing work on a masters’ degree. I don’t know if I have your courage, but I am becoming my best every day. Be well and think of the old women like me every once in a while. Praises be to THE ONE.

By: Katy T

Katy T — Sat, 21 May 2011 00:23:45 +0000

I’ve never commented on a blog before, however, I felt moved to send you a message. I really appreciated the realness of the podcast and the dialogue between you two. The organic revelation of Janet’s story was captured beautifully and I hope to hear more podcasts soon!

By: Sheri Tracey

Sheri Tracey — Fri, 20 May 2011 14:01:48 +0000

Bless you both for the light that you are.